The Weekly Rip 12.22.25 [Reflection]
We explore why collecting should feel like a reflection in a mirror.
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The Weekly Rip
Your Stacking Slabs Sunday Update
December 21, 2025
I want to tell you something I did not notice until it was already happening.
My collection changed this year.
Not in the way people usually mean that.
Not bigger cards.
Not rarer cards.
Not higher prices.
I didn’t decide to start collecting a new pc player because of nostalgia, analytics, or some other reason.
My relationship with collecting changed.
When I look back at how I used to think, I spent a lot of time explaining cards.
Set history.
Parallel context.
Market logic.
Why a card made sense.
I think this was the content producer in me coming out.
I was explaining the card to earn permission.
From others.
From myself.
This year, that flipped.
I stopped explaining cards.
I started explaining myself.
That shift sounds small.
It’s not.
It changed how I buy.
It changed how long I wait.
It changed what stays.
It changed what leaves.
I bought fewer cards this year. (I’ll share my Top 5 pick ups before the end of the year)
I know that without checking a spreadsheet.
But I spent more time with every card that did come in.
I got tired of spending money and moving on.
Tired of cards that looked right but felt empty once they arrived.
If I don’t want to spend time with a card, it does not belong here.
That became my filter.
Some cards sat in my head for months before I acted.
Some never made it past that stage.
For the first time, I talked about that part out loud.
The auctions I walked away from.
The trades I passed on.
The cards I liked but did not need.
That restraint matters more than collectors realize.
The hobby has evolved into an industry with a full-court press on it’s consumers: breakers are the manufacturer’s primary distribution channel. Social apps and live selling platforms are designed to push you to say yes….
But for what?
A short-term feeling that could have long term ramifications that aren’t so great.
The sales pitch by loud voices with a microphone to win big is so stale it stinks worse than when my kid leaves string cheese in her car seat. The desire to serve you a baggy of your favorite dopamine has started to grow mold.
Festering.
Most collections you admire were built by saying no far more than yes.
You don’t see the restraint because it happens in private.
Restraint is quiet.
The results are not.
Another change surprised me.
I stopped pretending my process was clean.
I used to think good collecting meant structure.
Lists.
Plans.
Being on offense.
I’m sure you can dig into the Stacking Slabs archives for hours of dialog around those collecting strategies.
The truth is cards show up when they want.
You do not schedule them.
So I stopped trying to run a perfect system.
I let myself react.
I let myself learn after the fact.
I let ownership teach me things no checklist ever did.
Some cards mattered less once I owned them.
Some mattered more.
I shared both.
Not to be right.
To be honest.
At some point this year, my collection stopped feeling like progress to track.
It started feeling like a mirror.
It reflected my time.
My energy.
My patience.
My season of life.
I have less time than I used to.
I also know what I want to protect.
My energy for collecting is higher now than it was last year.
That has nothing to do with prices or markets.
I am not building up.
I am building in.
That changed how I decide.
I no longer feel the need to justify taste through history or market logic.
If a card does not matter to me, it does not matter.
That clarity brought confidence.
Confidence in collecting does not show up as volume.
It shows up as calm.
Here is what that looks like for me now.
• I trust my own signals
• Hesitation tells me more than hype
• Silence is part of the process
• Fewer cards create stronger memories
• Trade offs sharpen direction
When I buy a card now, I ask a different question.
What did this cost me beyond money?
Time.
Energy.
Focus.
Optionality.
Every yes removes future yeses.
Naming that changed everything.
I care less about being right.
I care more about being honest.
Honesty builds trust.
With yourself first.
There were cards this year I bought and sold because something better showed up later. That taught me more than any win.
I no longer collect to meet a standard someone else made up.
I do not collect for a tier.
I do not collect for status.
If a card hits, it hits.
That is enough.
This year my collection became a conversation.
Mostly with myself.
About what I want this hobby to give me.
About what I want to protect.
About what stays when the noise fades.
If your collection feels louder than you want it to feel, pause there.
Ask yourself one question.
If your collection could talk, what would it say about how you think right now?
That question changed everything for me.
I talk more about this on next week’s episode.
This note is the doorway into that thinking.
Sit with it.
See what surfaces.
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Reissue: Why We Focus
Joe (@henry_rowengartner_cards) on Building a Collection That Reflects Who You Are
What if the best way to collect isn’t chasing the next release, but revisiting your roots?
That’s what Joe has done with his Cubs collection — and it’s a reminder that sometimes the most powerful thing we can do as collectors is to go back to where it all began.
In this episode, Joe shares how one World Series run pulled him back into the hobby, how memories with his grandfather shaped what he collects today, and how team-based collecting can be more than just a theme — it can be an extension of who you are.
This isn’t a story about chasing trends. It’s about chasing meaning.
Let’s break it down.
What We Learned from This Episode
Joe didn’t stumble back into the hobby by accident. It was the 2016 Cubs championship — a once-in-a-lifetime moment — that reignited something inside him. He started grabbing cards again, but it wasn’t until his grandfather passed in 2021 that it truly clicked.
He wasn’t just collecting Cubs cards. He was collecting memories.
He realized that the joy of the hobby was rooted in the ‘90s — sitting in front of the TV, watching games with his grandpa, following players like Sandberg, Maddux, Sosa, and Grace. And that’s where his collecting focus turned.
Joe isn’t after value. He’s after connection.
He builds around players and parallels that meant something — not because they’re in the Hall of Fame, but because they made him feel something growing up. Sosa is a centerpiece, not just for his numbers, but for the electricity he brought to every at-bat. He even collects lesser-known Cubs players simply because they’re part of the team sets he’s building — the Rod Becks and Henry Rodriguezes of the world.
He’s built out nearly complete runs of team sets from some of the hobby’s most iconic and scarce ‘90s products:
1999 Fleer Brilliants 24K
1998 E-X Credentials
1999 Star Rubies
1999 PMG Baseball
He’s laser-focused, intentional, and patient. He makes lists, studies what he really wants, and isn’t afraid to pass on a card if it doesn’t align with his vision. His approach reflects a mindset that more collectors are starting to adopt — that “less but better” creates a more fulfilling hobby experience.
Joe isn’t here to buy everything. He’s here to build something that lasts.
What This Means for Collecting in 2025
Focus isn’t about restriction — it’s about reflection.
When you narrow your scope, you start collecting with more intention. And when you collect with intention, your collection starts to reflect who you are, not what the market is doing.
Here’s the play:
If you’re coming back into the hobby, think about the teams, players, or moments that first made you fall in love with it. Start there.
Build a list. Know what matters to you. Stick to it. You’ll waste less money and make more meaningful pickups.
Post your cards. Make connections. Let people know what you’re chasing. The right card often finds you through the right people.
Don’t just look forward. Spend time with what you already own. Let it remind you why you’re doing this in the first place.
The best collections aren’t built with the most money — they’re built with the most clarity. Joe’s episode is proof that when you focus on what matters, the rest takes care of itself.
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Take care,
Brett